It's time to get help for my ANGER!!!!!!!!

Hello everyone,

I'm a first time poster.  Tonight I have come to the conclusion that I
need anger management.  It's a  long time coming.  I'm not violent, or
anything. Quiet the contrary, I'm a bit wimpy.  And maybe that is one
of the reasons I am angry.  Another reason, is, I feel like no one
listens to me.  Nor do I feel respected. I think that lack of respect
makes me the angriest.

I am a middle aged "gentleman" who has ruins left behind me because of
my anger. Right now I am going through some family difficulties because
of my anger.  These difficulties might not be reversible.  Words were
said that I can't take back.  I don't know if they will ever be
forgiven.

But others around me have anger issues as well. Why can't they see
them?  But I guess this post is not about me fixing them. It's about me
trying to fix myself.

Can anyone recommend any good resources for anger management?

Peace.